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  • November 6, 2015 at 11:34 am #86870
    Anonymous
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    Dear Ashley:

    Maybe he lied when he told you before that he had an accident. It is a possibility that he came up with it because it was an easy way to explain why he was gone for the time he was gone from your life and get your empathy at the same time. What will be the reason for him being gone this time? I would wait for his answer as patiently as I can, aware of the possibility above and cautious. This is how you get to know people, sometime getting to know people takes waiting patiently. If he answers you, study his answer, see how it fits with the picture you have. There may be a need for you to … adjust what you see to fit reality. Actually that is always in the making, if you remain awake to and curious about what is really taking place…

    anita

    November 21, 2015 at 4:30 pm #88051
    Kate
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    Dear Ashley,
    Sorry to hear you are experiencing these troubles. I noticed during your post you have been texting and speaking on the phone to this guy. Have you met this person face to face? My initial thoughts when I read your post was that if you haven’t, this is an awful lot of hassle and negative emotions to spend on somebody whom you haven’t had social interaction with. This could be a huge risk. You deserve to be happy and have the company of someone who worships the ground you walk on. Don’t settle, for anyone to give you attention. Perhaps suggest meeting with this guy? Then you will know his true intentions and whether he is prepared to make an effort making your relationship work.

    Kate x

    November 22, 2015 at 10:16 am #88091
    Anonymous
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    Dear Kate:

    As to your statement above: “You deserve to be happy and have the company of someone who worships the ground you walk on.”

    I don’t deserve to have anyone worship me, bad, bad idea! Bad idea to worship anyone. You will save yourself a lot of trouble, Kate, if you no longer expect someone out there to worship you and if you, god forbid, worship someone else.

    The fall from worshiping someone else or from being worshiped is a nasty, nasty, bruising fall.

    Love gradually, keeping your eyes open, do not worship.

    anita

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