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  • February 20, 2015 at 3:26 pm #73077
    Courtney Colella
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    I am sorry for the situation you are in. I always say no matter what to always go with your gut, when you are in a quiet place at home (maybe meditating) what does your heart say? It might be scary to admit to yourself that you need to end something since you do love that person very much but in loving someone it sometimes means letting them go for a bit. He sounds like he might not be as emotionally committed then you would like him to be. Since you stated before that he talked about your future together you are surprised by his actions, but you also stated you respect actions more than words. He might not say whether or not he wants this or that with you in the future but his actions should reflect his intentions.After having a conversation with him about how you have been feeling lately maybe you should consider taking a break or living separately for a while to see how much your feelings are substantial for one another concretely, I know this is a scary thought but I believe all relationships have a make or break point and maybe this is it for you and your boyfriend, Good Luck!

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    Court

    February 23, 2015 at 2:04 am #73203
    Will
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    Next time you try to talk to him, tell him it’s your last try. Tell him what you told us: that he’s not communicating with you anymore, that you feel disrespected, that you wonder why he’s gone from wanting children with you to living in his own little world.

    Tell him: no, things are not great. If you don’t fix this, you’ll need to find your own place to live.

    See if he’s willing to put the work in. If not, there’s your answer. But he might surprise you.

    February 23, 2015 at 4:31 pm #73220
    Anonymous
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    Take comfort in knowing you are not alone! I recently went through is. We knew each for a cew years but started dating six months ago. We fell in love and he treated me great, for the most part. Then he started being shady and disappearing and acting very disrespectful towards me for no reason. I tried several times to make it work, including making excuses for his behavior. But as the other poster said, you have to go with your gut. Its not easy, but trust me- you will get to the point where you have had enough. Ive learned that when someone shows you who they are, BELIEVE THEM. This is who he is and he most likely will not change. But, as everyone had told me “get rid of him, you can do so much better” – i just wasnt ready. Only you will know when enough is enough. Remember- you DO deserve more than what he is giving you (emotionally) and everyone deserves to be treated with respect. My friend told me, “sometimes love is not enough” and she was right. Just because were in love, does not mean we were meant for each other. Hang in there, be true to yourself and good luck.

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