Sex is the only thing he wants

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February 12, 2016 at 9:03 am #95895

Anonymous
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Dear hurts:

Yes, love yourself, choose yourself over him. Be on your side, take care of yourself. You should be your focus, not him. And as much and as often as your thoughts will continue to be about him (because this is a habit by now), re-focus your thoughts, move them again and again… and yet again back to yourself. Like any persistent habit, this mental habit of yours needs to be broken and your interest, I hope, will be centered around what you are about: what hurts you, what scares you, what you need, etc.

Please post again, anytime, and let the rest of your thread be about… you!

anita

October 17, 2016 at 9:59 pm #118388

John
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For me sex can be love. i’ve been seeing a lady for a long time that has no interest in sex. I try to accept it. But an old girlfriend emailed. Guys like sex. Sorry. Guilty as charged. Its not like it hurts, is it?

So then why were men wired this way? To mate annually to procreate and be miserable the rest of the year.

Did the creator drop the ball here?

December 20, 2016 at 7:39 am #123082

hurts
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I disappointed you all by forgiving him and give him a chance again. Yet the same thing happens again, slap me hard for being such a fool. He is hunger for sex, and I told him to look somewhere else, there are plenty women in his country, why come after me? He knew clearly I am annoyed by his sex cravings. Those women that he used to hang around with are still in contact with him, he claimed that he ignored them because he wanted only me. He blocked me online after I prove my innocence from his accusations. I feel so wrong, I wrote a short email to speak out my mind to end things.

My feelings are badly hurt. Enough is enough.

December 20, 2016 at 9:56 am #123101

Anonymous
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Dear hurts:

I am glad you are back to your thread and I will not “slap (you) hard for being such a fool”

I didn’t understand this part of your last post: “He blocked me online after I prove my innocence from his accusations.”

What accusations- he accused you of what?

anita

December 20, 2016 at 5:05 pm #123138

hurts
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As he has revealed his ugly secrets to me, i often have my doubts. Yesterday, he flied over wanted a meetup. I didnt go, i was hurt by his accusations.He didnt believe my words, he accused that i am using the same excuse to lie to him again. I swear i did not, i have proven my innocence but he shut me out.

December 20, 2016 at 5:35 pm #123140

Anonymous
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Dear hurts:

I didn’t understand what he accused you of. Nonetheless, if he accused you for doing something you did not do and he will not believe you…

and since he has been after a sexual relationship with you, which you are NOT interested in-

Do not chase him- let him “shut you out” and remained shut out from him, okay?

anita

December 20, 2016 at 7:06 pm #123153

hurts
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Thank you, Anita. You have been so kind to everyone of us for guiding us to go through the sad moments. Big Hugs, many thanks.

December 20, 2016 at 7:26 pm #123156

Anonymous
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You are very welcome, hurts, and thank you for your words of appreciation and affection- warms my heart in this cold, cold night. Do post anytime!

anita
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