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  • December 4, 2015 at 8:43 pm #88903
    Anonymous
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    Dear lil.lily:

    I read a bit from your previous post of a few months ago about dark energy as well as this one above.I think you are running away from what is inside you. When you wrote: “no… motion, no warmth. No compassion” (in Wash DC) I think there was no warmth or compassion for YOU in the home of your childhood. There was no motion of love into you there. And what you project to Wash DC is what is inside you, loneliness and lack of motion. The interactions you have with the man you meet is the best you (wrongly) think that you can get from a man, just a bit of something, remotely like love. You gave up on the real thing, true love, a long time ago.

    You want to help the world, to save the world, perhaps when the person that needs you help the most, the person needs to be saved is you.

    anita

    December 4, 2015 at 8:51 pm #88904
    Anonymous
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    Correction: You want to help the world; help yourself first. You want to save the world because you need to be saved.

    Do you think that your childhood was lonely, that it was the place where you lost the motion that you need now?
    anita

    December 4, 2015 at 10:00 pm #88910
    jock
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    I’d say take a break from physical relationships . Focus on work and spirituality for a while.

    December 5, 2015 at 8:59 am #88935
    TriangleSun
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    You say you’re not looking for a relationship yet you wonder why this guy doesn’t seem to be interested in anything more than sex with you. I’m not sure I follow this at all.

    December 7, 2015 at 1:03 pm #89159
    lil.lily
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    Hello @jack @anita @trianglesun

    Thank you every one for your responses. I know it’s true. I guess I just except so much sometimes with men. Especially the fact that I told myself I was not going to let them in, or let anyone disappoint me. It is true that I should just focus myself.. and I do. I just get caught up with the wanting, and the needing sometimes… and then I remember what my purpose was..and what I need to do to accomplish my goals.

    December 7, 2015 at 6:40 pm #89186
    Anonymous
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    Dear lil.lilly:

    Have you looked into your childhood home to see what happened to little lil.lilly, what was she thinking, feeling?

    anita

    December 9, 2015 at 7:22 am #89296
    lil.lily
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    Hello @anita

    Actually, I do look into my childhood a lot, I see the reflection of myself through my past, present, and future. I was very observant when I was a child. I clearly remember a lot of things about my childhood. I am not too sure what you are asking me Anita.

    I know… I have lived a extraordinary life, I had quite a lot of tantrums as a child, but very observant.

    December 9, 2015 at 8:00 am #89299
    Anonymous
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    Dear lil.lily:

    I am asking: as a child, did you feel overall liked, approved of, accepted, safe? When you were troubled, did you have a person to reach out to and receive the understanding, empathy and comfort that you needed, on an ongoing, reliable, )yet imperfect) basis?
    anita

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