Dear Felix:

It is fine that you want a girlfriend who looks attractive to you. You shouldn’t be with a woman who you are not attracted to!

Do your best with the looks you do have by dressing fashionably (after all, you do have the money, so dress well!), keep yourself groomed well, keep your body in shape by exercising and eating well (improve on the chewing with your back teeth, that will look better as well as allow you better nutrition). Also, I wonder if there is a class you can attend, or a teacher you can hire so to have a more attractive body posture (the way you sit, stand, walk..)

Do the best with what you have and aim at dating a woman who is attractive in your mind and heart.

anita

Dear Felix:

You keep mentioning 5’5” as being so short, but it isn’t that short. 5’4” is shorter, 5’3” is even shorter, and 5′ is five inches shorter. And men 5′- 5’5” all over the world have girlfriends/ wives, including some Hollywood stars, past and present: Richard Dreffuss, Daniel Radcliff (Harry Potter’s star), Johnny Galecki (The Big Bang Theory) are all 5’5” each, according to an online source.

And then comedian Kevin Hart, and actors Joe Pesci, Michel J. Fox and Charlie Chaplin- each one of them is/ was 5’4”.

With this online research, I am done communicating with you about your height. There is nothing I can do to make you taller, and there is nothing I can do to make you stop obsessing about your height.

Post about anything else that you can do something about, and I will reply.

anita