Big blue,

Consider keeping your attention on your daughter, after all it is her huzzah. Yes, you have attachments, hopes, dreams, but that is a poor venue for such things. Much like you wouldn’t take that engaging book you’ve been reading and pull it out during her party, consider shelving your romantic notions.

Of course, they’ll come up, much like you might “think” about the plot of that book… but undoubtedly let it go to keep your heartfelt affections aimed at your daughter’s accomplishment. Namaste.

With warmth,
Matt

Big Blue,

First of all, you have a big heart and generous spirit. I’ve seen you helping people all over these boards in the last few weeks. Second of all, she probably knows you’re still interested. Third, conduct yourself in a way that will make you proud and not regretful; if you can express love and kindness, do so. I wish you great energy in moving on if she’s still not interested.

Amy