M
As a woman of an ethnic background and having similar issues with my parents, I would say, they will come to terms with your choice when they see u happy. We underestimate the love our parents have for us. But the bigger issue here is not your family situation but the lack of passion you have for this girl. I hear that she loves tremendously but in your words above I diidn’t hear you voice the same. Its not fair to marry someone just because. I had my heart broken recently and when I look at my situation in a third person point of view, I see that its for the best. My ex loved me but, wasnt in love with me. He knew how much i loved him and he knew that he couodnt give me the same love.
I also like your girl told my ex that I will never be anyone after him and that he was my life. Guess what, 37 days later, I am healing. I miss him and I cry but it feels ok to be by myself. It feels good to know that I have another chance in life to find my best friend and love. The worst thing you can ever do to a person u love is not give them your all. Dont you think a woman who loves you so much deserves everything and more in life? I can tell u now after my experience that leaving me was the most lovable thing my ex has done for me.
Namaste