Dear Bluelagoon:

I do not understand what it is you are trying to heal in yourself? Is it the attachment you feel to your parents, an attachment that involves worry? This is my first question so to understand what it is you are asking for.

Second question would be: did you talk with your parents about your worries and what was their response or responses?

Also, a third question: will you write about how your parents took care of you, the nature of their caring for you? I am often fishing for negatives which are very common, but not here, not this morning. I am open to positives just as much. Actually, I would love to hear about loving parents, adequate parents, good relationships between adult children and parents, that would be such a nice break from the unfortunate normal…

anita