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Right person wrong time for him, wrong person right time for me?

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  • March 26, 2017 at 8:06 am #142167
    Craig
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    Jennifer,

    I read about the lying, the in and out of the relationship, the poor communication…. Do you want to be in a relationship like that? If not, what are YOU doing to change things? What is HE doing to change things?

    I understand that you have feelings for him, but a person’s behaviors (yours, his, mine, everyone’s) typically don’t change unless there is a conscious and intentional effort to make that change.  Promises to change mean nothing, in my opinion. Just food for thought.

    March 26, 2017 at 7:05 pm #142247
    Jennifer
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    Thanks Craig for your reply. I agree with ‘a person’s behaviors (yours, his, mine, everyone’s) typically don’t change unless there is a conscious and intentional effort to make that change’.

    I wonder if he is lying to me again the second time, like the first. This is due to uncertainty of the future. There is no way we can know when we will be reunited again, maybe 3,4,5  years? I think he does not want to be selfish to lead me on.

    Either there is a third party or not, there is clearly no end in sight for our relationship right now.

     

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