Dear nsuri:

Glad you are here, nsuri. For advice, I would need more information: how old are you? Man/ woman? Did you ever have a romantic relationship, short term or long term? And what disability were you born with?

anita

Dear nsuri:

Cerebral Palsy, I just read a bit about it in Wikipedia. It is not progressive, I understand and therefore your limp, I am supposing is the only symptom now and expected to be?

Is the limp is significant, immediately noticed by people?

Also, how long did your …longest short term relationship with a woman (?) last? And what was it like for you?

anita

Dear nsuri:

If you read some of the threads under the category of Relationships, here on tiny Buddha, you’d see that a whole lots of young people (and plenty of older people) struggle with relationships: many want a relationship, not having one and many have relationships where they are unhappy. And that is without a physical disability, a limping in your case.

Regarding the limping: some women will not want to be in a relationship with you because you limp. But then some women will not want to be in a relationship with a lot of men for all kinds of reasons: too short, too tall, too nice, not nice enough, etc… and often, no particular reason.

So, you see, the fact that you limp doesn’t suggest much to me. All you need is one woman who likes you and wants to get to know you better; one woman that you like and want to get to know better.

The question is do you have opportunities to meet women? Are you on an internet dating site? Do you work and are there women in your workplace? Any social activities…?

And that two months relationship you had, why did it end?

anita

Dear nsuri:

Can you be more specific about the input or advice you need? Can you describe the main problem you are experiencing in your quest for a love relationship? I don’t have enough information from you still.

anita

Dear nsuri:

I do hope you get others’ advice. Probably by tomorrow there will be more people answering you.

Let me see what advice I can come up with this evening for a 27 year old man needing love in his life, as we all have that need, you know: to love and be loved in return. What advice can I give you…

Be okay with needing to love and be loved. As long as you are selective about who you get involved with, getting to know her over time before committing yourself, then desperate is okay. We are born desperate for love, did you know? This is why babies are so cute: nature wants them loved. And we don’t grow out of it, wanting to be liked, to be accepted and then to be loved by that special someone.

So dare to be desperate that way- go and search for the woman compatible for you. She is out there desperate for you.

If it is online dating you are doing, put together a truthful, descriptive daring profile where you describe yourself and what would be a compatible woman for you, be as detailed as you can and in so being you focus on the search for a Compatible woman.

anita

Dear nsuri:

I am posting so to move your thread up in hopes you get others to reply to you.

anita