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  • November 11, 2013 at 5:58 am #45112
    Karin
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    Hi Nicola,

    Wow, it sounds like you’ve come so far! Good that you’ve moved on and worked on being happy.

    You can always try to remain friends with your ex, i don’t think that will stop you from moving forward if you guard your boundaries. But if you believe that staying in contact will not be good for you then tell him that. You can do so with love, but keep it close to you. Tell him how it makes you feel, don’t attack him or blame him, just say what you need. I’m sure he will understand if you talk from your heart.

    I wish you lots of love and strength,
    Karin

    November 11, 2013 at 6:20 am #45113
    Nicola
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    Hi Karin, hearing those words have really helped, it’s hard to see how far you’ve come on your own – so thank you 🙂

    I’m far from ‘healed’ but I sure know that I’m doing it the right way for me, it’s a case of 2 steps forward and 49 steps back but, hopefully those backward steps will reduce soon (hopes).

    I don’t think being friends with him is an option, he’s seeing someone else (which also makes things hard when he’s contacting me telling me how he feels about me), and for both of us to move on I think we need to go our separate ways.

    I will tell him what I need from my heart and hopefully we can get some closure.

    Thank you again. I really appreciate your response x

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