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  • April 12, 2013 at 12:26 pm #33766
    Marilyn Briant-Rockmore
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    Yes, its good to give in relationships, but the answer to personal happiness is not that simple. For way too many years, I was the only one giving. I gave way too much and felt used and drained. I finally realized that it was important to give to myself — time, love and respect. Now I make sure my I identify my own needs and that they are met. I am much happier, experience a deep inner peace and can give without expecting something back or feeling resentment.

    April 18, 2013 at 7:41 pm #34023
    Rajiv Sahay
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    Hi Marilyn,
    I understand that relationship is not pure science where the result of the inputs will always be the same….but when I write for giving I mean that the sorrow in relationships today is because we have stopped giving truly and have started expecting a lot. Go for a deep introspection and see if something has happened from your end , if not, it was a purely mismatch. Remember “Our real character is what we do when we think no one is watching us” . Be a good judge. Any rule does not involve 100% situations but a majority of them. If you feel happy today then probably you ventured in the wrong association. Good Luck……….God Bless

    April 18, 2013 at 7:42 pm #34024
    Rajiv Sahay
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    Hi Marilyn,
    I understand that relationship is not pure science where the result of the inputs will always be the same….but when I write for giving I mean that the sorrow in relationships today is because we have stopped giving truly and have started expecting a lot. Go for a deep introspection and see if something has happened from your end , if not, it was a purely mismatch. Remember “Our real character is what we do when we think no one is watching us” . Be a good judge. Any rule does not involve 100% situations but a majority of them. If you feel happy today then probably you ventured in the wrong association. Good Luck……….God Bless

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