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    Anonymous
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    Dear Lisa:

    I would like to understand better, therefore I ask: is it possible that your ongoing feeling  of anger toward your boyfriend, that it  is anger you have had  inside for a long time toward other people in your life, anger that you didn’t express to them because you were afraid to? And that anger comes out now  because  you are not afraid of your boyfriend leaving you or punishing you for it?

    anita

    #184417
    VJ
    Participant

    Hi Lisa,

    ” I cry all the time. I am mad all the time. I get stressed out over every little thing ALL THE TIME…. I analyze everything… I get mad when he doesn’t do that dishes, close drawers all the way, close the toilet lid etc. A lot of little things I feel like most people can let it go and not start a huge fight over it. I just get so angry inside and get anxious over these little things. “

    Usually when anyone analyses or reacts to, or feel overwhelmed with every single thing, or are detail oriented then it turns to be signs of a HSP type of person. Don’t worry it is not a disorder, but a personality trait. [HSP : Highly Sensitive Person]

    You can check that in the below FREE online test.

    If you wish to take, tick out the answers and at the end you can ‘skip’ the page when it asks for the email address.

    Then you are taken to the results page.

    lonerwolf.com/highly-sensitive-person-test/

    There are several FREE online tests available for HSP over the web.

    Below is another quick one-

    hsperson.com/test/highly-sensitive-test/

    If you are this type of personality then there are several books, videos and reference materials (I can point you to some if necessary) that are available over the web which explains how one can deal having this trait.

    Of course carry out your conversations with other members on this thread for the different set of issues you are experiencing.

    Warm Regards,

    VJ

     

    • This reply was modified 7 years, 3 months ago by VJ.
    #184533
    Eliana
    Participant

    Hi Lisa,

    Has this happened with past boyfriends? Is this your first relationship? Do you think you may be pushing him away because of fear? Maybe trauma from your past? Sometimes we unconsciously create walls using anger, blame, sensitivity, agitation, perhaps we feel we don’t deserve happiness, or something happened in our childood that hurt us, that we are trying to recreate that hurt in our adult life to heal from it. I hope you will post again. Have a Happy New Year.

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