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  • April 26, 2018 at 7:28 am #204241
    Regi
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    “I want to let you know, tshat he knows how much the porn affected me from the past, so he knows how much it huts me now. The problem is, if he had not searched for “big ass moms”, and just looked at normal porn with normal girls, with normal body types like me, I would forgive him. It is because of his specific interest in butts, moms and teachers. Everything that is not me.”

    The fact that he searches for big asses and older women is nothing to be afraid of. This doesn’t say anything about you are your relationship. It’s just an innocent fetish 😉 Altough, the fact that he keeps watching porn is not ok. Do you have sex? Perhaps he’s having blue balls.

    Also, it’s hard to know when he’s watching porn because you can’t always know when he does. Your trust is damaged, it’s hard for that to recover since you can’t always check his history, he can delete it.

    Regi

     

    April 26, 2018 at 8:18 am #204261
    Anonymous
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    Dear Ida:

    You wrote: “I know if I take him back, it will be a nightmare. I will feel wrong about myself every time he looks at me”- this is enough of a reason to not resume the relationship (and to cancel the plans to share an apartment in 15 days).

    It doesn’t matter if his longing for a certain body type is expressed only when he uses drugs, or if what context. What matters is that he expressed this longing already, repeatedly and this longing is well registered in your brain. And so, like you wrote, you will feel wrong about yourself every time he looks at you.

    anita

    April 26, 2018 at 1:22 pm #204387
    Ida
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    Thank you for the answers.

    well right now he is high on drugs again proberbly watching that kind of porn again.

    He hang up my calls for ours while being how. Now I have bloked him. i dont feel he is doing much to prove him self right now, he lost me Yesterday and do the exact same thing i dumped him for.

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    April 27, 2018 at 4:15 am #204489
    Anonymous
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    Dear Ida:

    You are welcome. I hope you keep this relationship in your past and not resume it. Reads to me that it is better for your mental health to leave this in your past, learn from it what you can, so that your next relationship is healthy, where you feel appreciated for who you are, physically and otherwise.

    Having a boyfriend who does not do drugs, who does not get high is a huge advantage as well.

    anita

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