Hi, I need your help.
We are married. A happy couple. ??? This is probably the past.
Today, I was ready to walk our dog. It was afternoon. Normally it was his job to do it in the afternoons, but his health was lately not the best, so I thought, I’ll help him and walk the dog instead. Right. He went, sort of, crazy. He took the keys, put in his pocket and wouldn’t give me.
It made me very angry. I felt like a bird in a cage. I was trying everything, was saying, ‘Please, give me the key.’ Nothing. He wouldn’t do it. It made me mad and I tried to insult him. Still, he wouldn’t give me the keys… He proposed to walk with me. I refused, because I didn’t want to walk with somebody who behaves like this…
It took around half an hour…
Finally he pushed me (leaving a blue, hurting place on my butt), and went with the dog for a walk (thanking me, at the same time, for my readiness for helping him). I promised him to terminate this relationship because I won’t live with somebody who wouldn’t allow me to walk the dog freely and who wouldn’t allow me to help him (this is a problem between us, he seldom allows me to help him).
This situation never happened between us. It is absolutely alien to us; however, it happened today and I am confused, frightened, disappointed, angry and can not imagine how to resolve this problem.
Even when I want to divorce him… I wouldn’t know right now where to go.
Please, when you read it and have any idea how to help me I would be very thankful for your response.
Thanks.