I met my Mr just over year and half ago.  We’ve had our ups and downs, and a short break up that lasted 3 Elliott’s.  Anyways,  he had been using facebook as a sort of tool against me with his ex.  He was also talking privately with some other women. (Leaving the door open, posing as single). He also watched porn,  I didn’t have a problem with that,  I myself watch it on occasion.  What I didn’t realize was that he was watching it daily,  numerous videos.  It was beyond excessive,  I couldn’t believe it.  Anyways,  we’ve talked about it and I told him how I felt (that the whole facebook game sh*t has got to stop, and that I felt insulted by the amount of porn he was actually watching). I have a fb and I don’t care if he does,  (rarely have I  met anyone that doesn’t) and like I said, I watch porn but expressed my concerns as there were some differences in our sexual relation that I’d begin to notice.

So here’s the question,  I don’t know how to handle this.  He basically threatened deleting fb and never watching porn again,  and I told him that is not what I’m asking him to do but if he chooses to,  that’s his decision.  After numerous arguments about some of his indiscretions he finally deactivated fb and says he doesn’t watch porn anymore (for me)! I told him I think that’s a bad idea… and sure enough! We had gotten into a discussion and it got heated up,  he then says sarcastically “it’s not like I’m watching porn,  and I don’t even get it at home anymore (we have pretty awesome sex almost daily,if not multiple times). He has also been making insinuating comments about his fb. This all seems to be manipulative behaviour on his part to try and use when things don’t work in his favor.  What should I do?

Thanks in advance,

Kait