Hi Anya, I think it wouldn’t hurt to ask. Just say something like this, “Hey, I don’t mean to overstep here, but I couldn’t help noticing that there’s recent photos of you and a girl you appear to be in a relationship with. I just thought I should ask, as if that’s the case I don’t really feel comfortable with what’s going on”

Another possibility to consider is that they’re from an old relationship. I still have photos of me and my ex all over facebook and instagram, some as recent as a month ago. Some people don’t feel the need to delete these and some do.

Hope it all works out

Dear anya12:

You wrote that you were introduced to this man once in the past, didn’t get to know each other, then had one date/hang out and following that one single date, “he says he can’t stop thinking about me, misses me and he never felt that way before”

– it is possible that a man will not be able to stop thinking about a woman he had one date with, and that he will miss her, a man who would form such a quick and strong attachment to a woman following one single date. Not likely, but possible.

The part that is way less likely is that “he never felt that way before”-  a man who forms such a strong and quick emotional attachment to a woman following one date, unless he never dated before, must have formed such attachments before.

Regarding the other woman, maybe she is a recent ex who didn’t update her profile yet. Maybe she thinks they are only on a temporary break but he thinks it is a long term break, or a final break.

I hope you post again, would like to read how this develops.

anita