Dear The Thinker:
Why do you want to spend more time with your parents? You wrote “because theya re getting older.” But that doesn’t answer my question here. Do you like them more now that they are older and therefore you find time with them more interesting and enjoyable to you? Can you explain more?
Why do you want to spend more time with your wife?
Why do you feel guilty about not spending enough time with your parents and your wife- what is the guilt about?
Depending on your answers you might want to be okay with quitting your job…? Or be okay once you resolve your guilt…?
anita