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    Anonymous
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    Dear Gaurav Bisht:

    You feel guilt for the life that started in her uterus, a life that was put to an end. You also feel guilt for her suffering physically, mentally because of the abortion. And you feel guilty, I understand, for not being able to make her feel better (because you are separated). You feel guilty when thinking about being in a relationship with a different woman, in your future.

    I would like to offer you a bit of a math exercise that I will be doing here, very simple math. Let me know if you agree with it (I may be wrong in my calculations).

    For the fact that you and her had a sexual relationship, your responsibility is 50%, hers is 50%.

    For the fact that she got pregnant, that there was a mistake in protection from it, your responsibility is 50%, hers is 50%.

    For the fact that she attended an abortion, your responsibility is at the most 50%, hers is at least 50%.

    For the fact that your relationship has been terminated, your responsibility is 0%, hers is 100%.

    anita

     

    #188045
    Gaurav Bisht
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    Thanks Anita, I understand your point. All I need to do is just stop talking to her and get over these feelings, which I’m finding hard to do right now.

    #188085
    Anonymous
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    You are welcome, Gaurav Bisht. I hope life gets easier and more pleasant for you soon enough.

    anita

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