Hello everyone,

Thank you for the support in Tiny Buddha. First of all, I am young in my mid twenties and recently changing job. Now, I am facing a bit of mindset dilemma in my career. My new jobs pays almost double from my previous job, however the location is a bit far and there are a lot of works, more like a startup environment. In here, I feel like I need to do everything because there is no setup and structure on how to do things. I am just few days working here and I see some colleagues are stressed out. But some also tries to remain neutral and just do the job.

In comparison, I was very miserable in my previous job. Lack of appreciation, the pay is a bit low, a lot of structure, and they played the blame game a lot. However the place is near my house and not much work to do, so you can shut down after 6pm+. It is a big corporation so you didn’t have to do everything as they have the system and structure in place.

My question is I keep comparing the new one and the old one. When I go back very tired, as too focused in my work, I asked myself, am I making the right decision to move? What should I do to not feel stressed out like others? Should I think positive as a learning ground? If anyone has the same experience before or some advice. Please let me know.

Thank You.
Doremi