Dear cali sister:

A double posting so I missed an earlier post. Also, I am very tired at this point, had a bit of a difficult day (not about you), so I am not very focused. You are referring to #2, flirting. I suggest, regarding rule #2, no romantic relationship with a co worker, specifically when you are his direct manager. It is too risky, your priority goal is to maintain your job so you don’t risk it for a guy!!!

anita

Dear cali sister:

I like it that you know me  well enough to know I was having a difficult day, makes me smile as I type this. Tell you what- I’ll shut down the computer and plan to turn it on in the evening to read from you, if you do post or email by evening time, and say the good night I am used to say to you nightly. Please rest some today or have fun out, both.

anita

Dear cali sister:

“I would like to ask you something- to perhaps be honest with me on days you’re having that are difficult. What do you think?”-

Well, reads to me that you are saying that I was dishonest with you yesterday. If so, I need to  know how was I dishonest?

anita

Dear cali sister:

I did have a difficult day yesterday but I wasn’t dishonest with you. To not disclose a difficult day is not dishonesty. Sometimes it is sensible, to not burden another, for example. I do appreciate your empathy though. Regarding the part of your previous post, regarding the goals and rules, I withdraw from my previous effort to direct you on the matter, or to lead you. If you want you are welcome to lead me and suggest goals, rules and whatnot if you think it is a good idea.

I know you are going on vacation tomorrow. I think that best you relax for the rest of the day best you can, not attend to anything that is not necessary and prepare for what  I hope would be a relaxing, sun soaking, pleasant experience next week.

(I will soon be away from the computer and back in the evening).

anita