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    David4500
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    Base on what you have said. this is just how i feel. you are telling him what you need for this relationship to work. but he is not planning to stable down, and choose to run away from problems in this relationship. and i also find that you did not mention why is he so afraid of introducing you to his friends. i feel that there is alot of things he does not want to tell you, or simply just want to escape this issue.

    i feel that a relationship required both of you to share out how each other feel. it doesn’t matter how many common interest you both have or fun time you two have been together. because everything has an end to it. try to find out how he feel with your common friends if he does not want to tell you directly. Or talk to him when u feel his mood is good. Just remember that you need to listen to how he really feel and not telling him how much you have did for him or want him to do.

    if it still don’t work, tell yourself you have done your best to work things out. love yourself more, spend more time understanding yourself. life is full of changes, choose to live happily. best wishes.

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    Autumn
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    Thank you for your advice!
    He just likes to keep things with himself. He does not usually express his feeling and that is the problem. He seems like the person who will listen to his friends and follow their advice. I realized that every time he wanted to live apart were when he just found a new group of friends and he wanted to have social life. He always stated “he does not want to have a gf”. He has been in relationship for over 8 years (he had two girlfriends before he met me and after he broke up with them he would jump into a new relationship right away).

    His friends told him to move on and find someone to sleep with to forget me. When they do not even know me so well or what we have been through this past 4 years. Two weeks ago, he was drunk and we got into a fight. He said he does not love me anymore and he just wants me to give him two weeks alone. He said he enjoys going out clubbing and drinking with his friends now. ? I dont even know why would he ask me to give him two weeks for?

    • This reply was modified 10 years, 5 months ago by Autumn.
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