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  • November 3, 2018 at 5:15 am #235235
    Anonymous
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    Dear woollyworm53:

    You hated that job but then you found peace doing it. If you hated it and didn’t find peace, the answer would be easier, to not return to a job you hated that much, since the bills can be paid otherwise, for now. But you found peace and didn’t hate it eventually?

    Something you wrote April stuck to my mind: “I was always the invisible person, a quiet soul  lost in noise, the person that after 12 years at the same school nobody even knew my name”-

    my advice is that your choice will be about making yourself visible, about speaking up and making your own noise, loud and clear, so that people will hear you and know your name!

    anita

    November 5, 2018 at 7:46 am #235499
    woollyworm53
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    Hi Anita!

     

    Thank you for your response 🙂 It is true that I found peace (i.e., I stopped resisting it so hard, and was able to go to work without hoping for car accidents) but I never found joy. I still disliked the work, but I was OK with disliking it.

     

    I ended up deciding not to betray what I had told myself before, and did not take the job. Like you said, bills can be paid otherwise. It was a tough decision, as I have been looking for employment for some time now, but in the end, I believe I made the right choice. I finally was able to make my own choice and not rely on others, which was hard and full of doubt, but I guess a step in the right direction!

     

    Again, thank you for your encouragement!

    November 5, 2018 at 8:26 am #235513
    Anonymous
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    Dear woollyworm53:

    You are welcome. I am glad you chose to not betray yourself! Post again anytime and I will be glad to reply to you.

    anita

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