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March 19, 2016 at 12:27 pm #99499
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GuestDear anxiousangel:
You wrote: “we do need to make a mark in this world, stand out and be counted as significant.” I disagree. We need to survive, make a living. We don’t need to make a mark in the world or to stand out. And this is my point which I wrote to you at the beginning of my last post to you: in your original home, as a young boy, you were not made to feel worthy, valuable. This is why you look for that feeling so desperately.
As a young boy you were already worthy and valuable and you knew it then. Then it was taken away from you. And you started looking for it in a future point when your potential as a worthy individual will materialize in the form of social status, recognition, praise, power and money.
The point of “spirituality” is to go back in time and realize that you were born valuable and worthy, loving and lovable.
And then, choosing a job or a career and everything else is not infused with the search for that inherent value and worth that you already possess.
Please separate the two: inherent worth and making a living, two different things. Once these are separate in your mind, life would be easier, because in reality, these things are separate and when our thinking and feeling is aligned with reality, we do well.
Marketing vs the product. I didn’t think it through when I first introduced the concept to you. As I wrote to you, my thinking about your sharing developed over time. The product, you, is inherently worthy, valuable, loving and lovable. No need to sell it. Just BE it.
As far as making a living, a product can be any practical skill and hard work, perseverance, time, patience is required to develop many skills. This is for the purpose of making a living.
As far as judging you: I have lied to people too. I also hurt other people, used other people- I am not superior to you, Angel. I no longer do these things, and healing is an ongoing process. It is all about progress, not perfection. Let’s continue to correspond.
anita
March 19, 2016 at 1:01 pm #99500anxiousangel
Participantlooking for that separation..change in world view. but there is fear,ambition,search for peace, stubborn inherent needs, responsibilities, a lot of competing arguments and fell torn between them.
hope i gain a stable consciousness and a true perspective.
March 19, 2016 at 1:25 pm #99501Anonymous
GuestDear anxiousangel:
An anxious angel is a fearful angel. Fear makes thinking very difficult and certain understandings, impossible.
When you get to a (temporary) state of calm, when fear takes a little break, re-read, re-think. And when you are fearful again, stop. Get calm again.
anita
March 19, 2016 at 1:30 pm #99504anxiousangel
Participanti kno the battle is mine and i will have to find my way… but really kind of u to help me so much all along.
it was a complex layered story and u deciphered it brilliantly. bless you anita.
March 19, 2016 at 7:37 pm #99525Anonymous
GuestDear anxiousangel:
You are welcome and thank you for your appreciation.
Till your next post, take care:
anita
September 22, 2017 at 1:32 pm #169907anxiousangel
Participanthi anita…remember me
September 23, 2017 at 7:59 am #169941Anonymous
GuestDear anxiousangel:
Welcome back to your thread! How are you?
anita
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