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  • October 8, 2018 at 11:38 am #229783
    Anonymous
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    Dear Marnie:

    I think that your complaints are valid and you are not at al crazy (“Am I crazy?”). You really have been and are left out and ignored by your husband’s parents. They are rude to you and your husband should have protected you from such mistreatment, should have made sure it doesn’t happen by talking to his parents, by involving you in the conversation, by seeing to it that you are an equal and respected family member, not a servant. I am sorry that you are in this situation.

    You talked to your husband about it and he says they don’t mean it. Well, he is wrong, they do mean it.

    First thing I suggest you do is quit the job of being a servant to the people who ignore you, stop washing dishes for start, with or without gloves. What do you think?

    anita

    October 10, 2018 at 10:30 am #230181
    Brandy
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    Hi Marnie,

    Holy cow! Honestly, if it were me, I’d rather the in-laws were overtly mean to me than this covert, passive-aggressive baloney they’re dishing out. I would not be around these people, if it were me. I would let my husband be around them all he wants, but I wouldn’t take that kind of b.s. from anyone. You were the only spouse left out of the obituary?? So you’re saying that the spouses of your husband’s siblings were listed but you weren’t?? That’s outrageous.

    No, you are not crazy.

    B

    October 10, 2018 at 8:56 pm #230253
    Marnie
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    Anita and Brandy,

    Thank you both for replying to my post. It makes me feel like my concerns are valid. I believe that unless this issue is addressed, I will take both of your advice and just never go to their house or have any interactions. Thank you both so much. I truly appreciate it and I am taking all given advice to heart.

    Marnie

    October 11, 2018 at 7:18 am #230327
    Brandy
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    Hi Marnie,

    You are welcome. I’m still trying to process the part about you sitting quietly and being ignored at family dinners. Don’t let these people break your spirit. Just stay home.

    Sorry you’re going through this. Hang in there.

    B

    October 11, 2018 at 7:28 am #230331
    Anonymous
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    Dear Marnie:

    You are welcome. Please post again anytime. I would like to know what happens next in your life.

    anita

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