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Quinn Martin.
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April 26, 2017 at 5:23 pm #146879
Taylor Magi
ParticipantI’ve dealt with this before and it will be really hard to move on, especially if he was your first kiss. But, if he all of a sudden stopped texting you because he didn’t trust that you were a virgin, that isn’t someone you should be with. You did nothing wrong! He obviously has his own problems that he needs to take care of before he can truly take care of you. It’s totally normal that you’re afraid you’re going to miss out, but if he treated you that way, fighting would probably happen a lot. That is considering the fact that he thought you weren’t a virgin himself and didn’t get that idea from someone else. I wish you good luck, my love!
April 26, 2017 at 6:02 pm #146895Craig
ParticipantHi Selena,
I hope you give your time and heart to someone who will believe what you share with him. A person who tells you that you’re lying, when in fact you are being truthful, can be exhausting to be around, and is not worthy of your heart.
Just my opinion.
Craig
April 27, 2017 at 9:49 am #146983Anonymous
GuestDear Selena:
You asked: “Should I just move on, I am scared that if I do, I might miss a relationship with him or something.”?
The answer is clearly to NOT pursue him further, and to move on, to ignore him at work, to have no communication with him at work (or minimal if necessary for work purposes).
The reason it is clearly the answer is because you wrote: “He then said…(that) he want nothing to do with me and that he was blocking my number.”- he clearly said he wants nothing to do with you, so you have to respect that and have nothing to do with him.
anita
April 27, 2017 at 4:54 pm #147061Quinn Martin
Participant@Anita
“The reason it is clearly the answer is because you wrote: βHe then saidβ¦(that) he want nothing to do with me and that he was blocking my number.β- he clearly said he wants nothing to do with you, so you have to respect that and have nothing to do with him.” -Anita
Yeayeayea, that may be true and although I do agree with it there are a thousand other ways he could’ve said that or explained things. If you both lead each other on equally and then the one drops it’s not bad in my book, and that he ignored her isn’t the end of the world for me, but when you confront them with it and they simply give you the “goodbye” message then that is kinda crossing the line, the least you could do is give an explanation, but if he won’t, and he’s not prepared to listen, then yes you gotta just accept it and move on : PYou should just move on. I mean the least he can do is believe you, from what I can tell you wouldn’t’ve worked out (sorry if that hurts) so don’t think you’re missing out on anything. Also another something came to my attention that is NOT deductable from your message. Exactly HOW did the flirting start? There’s a difference between flirting after having reached a certain comfortable stage after one, three and five days in itself. Someone who sees more in you will generally take steps more slowly to give themselves time to go in, generally people who see less in you could flirt on you from the first day, it really all depends, and this kind of stuff I’m not saying from experience, but from intuition combined with stories, so I could be wrong.
Also if you want to contact me on other social medias except here just ask o: would it be hypocritical to say I like you xD I think so :$ but still. If you need any more advice from me just ask π I’m here for you <3
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Quinn Martin.
April 28, 2017 at 4:05 pm #147215Selena
ParticipantHi Quinn,
Me and this guy had a lot happen to us in a short amount of time. But he started flirting with me around 2 months or a month ago. And he kind of eased himself into it slowly. Then a couple weeks later he gave me his number and we started texting.
April 29, 2017 at 8:45 am #147271Quinn Martin
ParticipantAh, all right, that’s interesting. Thanks for answering back π
As for updated advice cause of this new info you should still move on.
Also if you need more help you can always ask me : )You’ll get through it π and you have plenty of people here supporting you. I know you’ll make the right choice <3
And if you want to talk to me even more just ask for my social medias, I’d be happy to give them. -
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