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  • November 9, 2015 at 9:48 pm #87112
    Anyone
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    Dear takeflight123,

    Give him some time and frame all the questions you might want to know. Try and get the answers from him.

    A quote that might help: ‘Figure out what you want and learn how to ask for it’.

    Based on the kind of answers you get from him, you’ll know where it’s headed. You can later take a call on what to do.

    Sending love and light..

    November 10, 2015 at 3:23 am #87117
    DrCheour
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    Dear takeflight123,

    I think that you already have the answers. It was your ex who ended the relationship. He does not have time to see you. He does not initiate contacts with you. When you took the one month break, did he try to contact you? Using a scenery picture that you took on your vacation as a profile picture does not mean that he chose it because he is thinking about you. I know it hurts, and my heart goes out for you, but it is time for you to move on. Love yourself enough to find someone who loves you back. When you find someone who loves you, you really don’t have to ask yourself whether he loves you back. You know it.

    Wishing you all the best in your journey.

    November 10, 2015 at 11:16 am #87163
    Anonymous
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    Dear takeflight123:

    What happened happened and you cannot reverse the clock. All that is relevant now is that you got to a place that is not good for you with this guy, a place of begging, a place of trying to win him over while you are not even sure that you want that. It is not a good place to be in and it is a situation that is very unlikely to bring you good results. So take flight from this undesirable situation- stop chasing him; stop trying to prove to him you changed in the ways you think will bring him back. Let him go and really change in the ways that will bring YOU back to yourself. Meaning, move from focusing on him to focusing on yourself.

    anita

    November 10, 2015 at 10:51 pm #87199
    Este
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    Hello takeflight123!

    I will be completely honest here with this question – How much do the both of you value this relationship?

    Think about it and be real naked honest. That will give you the answer to your topic question.

    Om.

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