Im in a LDR with my bf for almost 1.5 yrs now. I will see him about once a month or once in 2 months. He’s always busy and tired which I understand that and I will never demand him to come more often although deep inside I wish so. So about 1 mth ago, he told me he will try to plan to come during my bday which is today and boy of course I am really happy to hear that. Just about 2 weeks ago, he told me he is sorry that can’t come during my bday. I told i am disappointed to hear that.
He apologised again and asked how can he make it up to me. At that time I felt really upset and I answered,
I feel i am not really important to you. I may be wrong but this is how i feel. You don’t need to do anything. I appreciate for what you have done all these while, thank you. Just be urself, do what u think is right, is ur freedom.

He has not replied and not contact ever since so it’s about 2 weeks now. I just want to know if I have given him an ultimatum? What I understand after I have calmed down is that he tried to make it up but I sort of rejected.
Is this gona be a big deal? Or is just a cooling period after an argument?
Although i trust that he will come back (that’s the reason why I did not reach out to him) at the same time im scared that he will not.
Birthday is an important day to me and that is why I felt so miserable when he told me that. I couldn’t control and burst at him.
At this moment I really want to know if what I said is going to ruin our relationship.
Please help.