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February 25, 2017 at 8:59 am #129335
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GuestDear Chau:
I read a reply you posted on another thread yesterday and was hoping you will post in your own thread so I can read about the rest of your trip. Glad to see you did just that (this morning, my time). Glad you enjoyed the local tour in Bolivia!
A fit and muscular Chau is a good thing. I hope you maintain your fitness with exercise. It will take some adjustment to the change of returning home. Do post again as you adjust, with thoughts, feelings, whatever they are at any time.
anita
March 24, 2017 at 10:27 am #141513Chau
ParticipantDear Anita and all
Good to come back again, this time not to vent out, but to share my recent life after I came back home.
After I came back I am very at ease with myself, I haven’t been at state for like, 2 years i guess? There are still times when I get frustrated, irriated, angry or negative in general, but I realized I let these go so much quicker than i did before. I even let go of negative people in my life, and if i really need to interact with any of them, i take things very lightly. I remember when Anita said every minute of life ruminating over these negative things that happened in life, is a life lost, and this has really stuck in my mind.
and I also realized, the only way that I can contribute back to my friends and families, is to be a very healthy and happy person. I know how I have been spreading positivty to my friends now, they noticed how I have changed, they noticed how I have become very happy about things in life, and that I begin to reach out to friends who are in distress and in having a difficult time.
I think because i needed to climb back up from the bottom, I have accumulated so much wisdom that I was either told, or I discovered in life, and that has made me very resistance to upsetting events in life in general.
and I realized, I have grown so much after this. and now, everyday seems to be a day to celebrate. I am very grateful for what I have in life.
I found that really miraculous. I will try to continue to keep up with it =)
Talk again
Cheers
Chau
March 24, 2017 at 12:00 pm #141521Anonymous
GuestDear Chau:
I believe so: it is because you climbed up from the bottom, that you accumulated your wisdom. The wisdom you discovered- you practiced. Nothing you were told was of any value except that you practiced it, and discovered for yourself what works and what does not.
All aspects of this delightful post is evidence of your wisdom and healing. I am genuinely impressed and wish lots of people read this post of yours- what a testimony it is for healing which is available to all of us.
I wish you continued healing and hope to read from you again and again. The journey of healing and of accumulating wisdom is not linear and there is no such thing as “happily ever after”, no problem-existence, and so, do post at any point on your journey.
anita
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