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    cranberry
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    So it has been 6 months since my break up and I know I need to move on. I think of him so often its annoying. About a few weeks ago I saw my ex at this event. I was so shocked and didn’t say anything to him, I just kept walking. I always thought about what I would do if i were given the chance to see or talk to him again and there was the opportunity and I passed it up.  I dont know if he saw me or not.

    I know he is already talking to other girls cause after spotting him there I looked at his social media and he’s being a major flirt with other girls. He just looks so happy and I am happy that he is happy. But it hurts because I have been hoping he would come back to me. how pathetic is that? That this entire time I have been waiting for someone who isn’t even thinking of me.

    I just want to stop missing him

    I do have crushes on other ppl but idk if it is going to go anywhere. I feel like when I meet someone I’m interested in I overthink everything and I feel inferior to them. A part of me feels like I shouldn’t talk to other dudes, that I should just focus on healing but another part of me feels like talking to other guys will help me move on.

    I don’t know what to do about this situation.

    #183829
    Anonymous
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    Dear cranberry:

    You asked how pathetic is it, that you were hoping he would come back to you: not pathetic at all. It is not pathetic that you still miss him. I do wish one day soon you will no longer feel inferior to anyone because… you are not inferior to anyone.

    You wrote that a part of you feels like focusing on healing but another part of you feels that talking to other guys will help you move on. I think maybe you can do both: focus on healing and talk to other guys without getting into a relationship. Talk, get to know guys, ask them questions, listen to them. You will learn, if you ask and listen, that they too struggle with similar struggles to yours.

    anita

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