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Moving?! Any advice/prayers would be appreciated! Making major life decisions

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  • August 16, 2014 at 11:49 am #63505
    Big blue
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    Hi Cami,

    You posted in Work not Relationships. Hmm.

    What about something between full-time physically together and total separation as in ‘we’re done’? This would allow you to pursue your career and travel now.

    If instead of directly announcing your breakup, you talk about your goals with him, how might that work?

    Big blue

    August 16, 2014 at 2:23 pm #63509
    Matt
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    Cami,

    If you’re feeling a pull toward teaching English, or hitting the wide open road and seeing what happens, its not selfish. Consider having a heartfelt conversation with him about how the sky is calling you. It may sadden him, but a loving heart doesn’t wish to clip wings, even if it means living without you, waiting, or moving himself. Said differently, why is it London or bust? Why is that all on your shoulders? That’s not fair. He’s a big boy, and can buy some suitcases if it means that much to him. Talk it out, and just remember… if it doesn’t feel right, it probably isn’t!

    With warmth,
    Matt

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