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  • September 26, 2016 at 6:16 am #116298
    Peter Reece
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    Hi Dreaming

    My name’s Pete. That’s a really tough gig you’ve got there. A lot of things are not the way you want them and I can understand your despair.

    Your dissatisfaction revolves around people and health it seems: you have challenges within your extended and immediate family; you’re not confident in your current close relationship; and you don’t seem to have the same relationship with friends that you once had. Added to that is your chronic health condition.That’s enough for anyone to think about moving away!

    Having said that, can I ask you how would moving to the other side of the country improve your health and your relationships?

    Can I ask you as well, what is the state of other important life areas e.g. work? finances? hobbies? How would moving affect them?

    What is there that is good about your current life that you would like to keep?

    Pete

    September 26, 2016 at 7:48 am #116305
    Anonymous
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    Dear dreaming715:

    Since you work from home, you can continue to do the same job from another location, another state. You are estranged from your bio mother, not close with your extended family or with your roommates- and not too close with your boyfriend. Moving might give you the fresh beginning you need (and you can still post on tiny buddha from your new location!)

    Moving is not a solution to the struggles that take place between-the-ears, but the move itself can be a jolt in the right direction, a push, kind of fresh air to steer you to try new things, a new approach, attitude, etc.

    anita

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