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  • January 8, 2014 at 10:57 pm #48756
    Mark
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    Hi Bernadette,
    You admit that you are self destructive in this relationship. You also point to a reason why you have stayed in such a poor relationship, i.e. fear of being alone, fear of not being worthy enough.

    You are asking what to do. Re-read what you said in the first sentence. What would you advise anyone else who wrote what you wrote?

    What would you say to someone who has suffered a five year up-and-down relationship with no self esteem?

    I am sorry for your pain. The answer is in the mirror.

    Mark

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    January 9, 2014 at 8:12 am #48776
    Manuel Durán
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    Hi there,

    From what you’ve said I believe you should focus on yourself, your boyfriend might have become as he doesn’t care, but what’s important is that you care, that you care for yourself. It sounds to me that you might work on loving more yourself maybe I time separated will do good, I thing you should focus on building yourself and becoming your best friend besides take into account that being separated doesn’t necessarily mean a bad thing since you are not possessions of each other. When you love you gotta let go sometimes and according to what you’re saying maybe life is asking you to engage a relationship with yourself before you can fix any other relationship. Be kind to him, be at the better terms but isolate from him for a while to think what’s wrong. A relationship’s purpose isn’t about feeling sad or bad, it’s otherwise so when that isn’t happening you must reconsider.

    Feel blessed every day you wake up Bernadette. Best regards.

    April 30, 2014 at 4:02 am #55624
    crystal
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    Hi dearest Bernie,
    I can totally understand how u must be feeling. You have to realize that this is theway he will be for the rest of his life..this is how he is and i doubt if there will be any change. If he s not worried about you why are you so concerned with the matter?? I know you for a way little time and im genuinely tensed about your health and your bf knows you for 5 years and he s barely bothered is a HUGE disappointment. As i did tell u before- you deserve someone better and im sure you ll find tat person. The very fact that you took so much of your time to write about this guy s behaviour tells that you re not happy with him. U shud be in a relationship to feel special and loved, not neglected and not cared for…
    I know im replying very late and i dont have any idea of whats goin on now, but i just wish that u r happy wherever u r..Take Care.

    Warm rgds,
    Crystal…

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