So I already know that the job im in isnt my dream career, that much is certain, but Im stuck on what i do want to do. I’d quite like to move back to my uni town to get my own place etc and am currently looking for a job there but not sure what to do.
In the background of all this though is telling my employer and getting references. My company policy is that only HR will issue work references so Im ok with this. Im not sure if a) I should ask someone in HR before naming them and b) if it will get back to my manager when they’ve had a reference call.
Secondly, alot of jobs Ive looked at have said that they’ll contact references before offering a job. Im not 100% happy with this as Id rather it be done with the knowledge that im almost guaranteed to get the job, rather than jeopardise my current position and potentially get fired and end up with no job.
Im thinking i might just have to accept this though and go for it or should stand firm and say please dont until you’ve offeerd me the job. Im so bad at these types of conversations as well and Im absolutely dreading having to tell my boss that I want to leave before Ive got somewhere to go to