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  • June 30, 2023 at 10:33 am #420629
    Sarah Jeanne Browne
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    Roll of thumb: Lying = Leave.

    Gut feelings are never wrong.

    June 30, 2023 at 1:59 pm #420631
    Roberta
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    Dear Lunaryogini

    Did he close his personal account and ask the bank to move all his standing orders & direct debits over to the new joint account? If so it could be an oversight that he did not weed out redundant debits.

    If you choose to continue with this relationship then you both may benefit from couples counselling so that your relationship can flourish and each of you heal these underlying problems that you each appear to have.

    June 30, 2023 at 2:13 pm #420633
    lunarforest
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    He did admit to the lying, so it was definitely a lie that it was a rollover from last year.

    Thank you for your insight. I have a lot to meditate on and think about here whether I really want to stay or leave.  Couples counseling is a good idea if I decide to stay.

    July 1, 2023 at 1:24 am #420640
    Roberta
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    Dear Lunaryogini

    The reason he lied was because he was scared of my reaction because he knew I was very uptight about anything to do with his ex wife

    I have reread your original post. This man managed to have an amicable divorce ( major bonus points), which I think says a lot and it was you who took issue with the way that these two people chose to handle their affairs ( pets can have similar entanglement to children) which appears to led to him becoming secretive.

    It makes me wonder what trust issues you have had before meeting this gentleman?

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