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September 19, 2016 at 12:17 am #115579
Miniature Bodhisattva
ParticipanteightyHD,
That’s lovely. Someone told me once (and I’ve made the decision to believe it), “words that are spoken / thought are always delivered…even if only energetically.” So I have no doubt yours will make their way to her, even if she never logs on to the site.
And I applaud you for not only expressing gratitude, but also your hurt/disappointment. Both are equally valid, and one does not diminish the other.
Take good care of yourself in these days ahead.
September 19, 2016 at 1:57 pm #115629slider
Participanti like to think of love like energy… it cannot be destroyed, it only changes form. your letting her go was an act of love. and i am sure she still loves you, maybe only differently.
September 19, 2016 at 3:39 pm #115635eightyHD
ParticipantMiniature Bodhisattva:
Thank you for your support and sharing your thoughts. I know i cannot protect her from herself, and being young in her mind, its her choice to make, and I cannot force free will.Slider:
Every one defines love differently, and it is everything and it is everywhere.Im grateful for sites like this that allows us to communicate and release our emotions and support each other!
Thank you!September 23, 2016 at 3:09 pm #116054Cheryl
ParticipantHi, I’m new to this site and felt drawn to this post
My husband pushed me into marriage ( second one) our relationship was fantastic at first then I realised once he’d moved in with me, that he had some very nasty traits. Jealous , clingy,childish I won’t go on ,but I loved him never the less
Around 6 months ago he basically said he wanted to live on his own, have his own finances back and travel , causing me to have to sell the house and other upheavals
He had some sort of midlife crisis I know it , he still contacts sometimes to say how much he loves looking at my pictures and how he grieves , but on the other hand he’s away on a 2 week trip to the USA that I should have gone on pasting all his pictures on Facebook ( so I’ve been told)
The question is I’ve become very interested in Buddhism and have started meditation classes and for years have tried to adopt the non attachment and forgiveness etc, I think that’s why people are amazed at how strong I am as it’s definitely give me strength
I am however really really struggling with anger I imagine whilst I’m sorting out the mortgage and finding a new house, also,the fact im bewilderment and sad as to why this happened , he has flown and is free of all responsibility ,he’s travelling got lots of plans like I was just a chapter in a book
I would appreciate some ideas on how to let go of him as I believe the best punishment is for me to be really happySeptember 23, 2016 at 7:47 pm #116094Anonymous
Guest* Dear Cheryl: Can you start your own thread? Please copy your post above, then go to FORUMS, choose a CATEGORY (RELATIONSHIPS), click Relationships, go down the page and paste your post there. See you there!
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