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  • December 12, 2014 at 9:48 am #69165
    xWhy
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    Hey Sarah!
    Got a bit of bad news. The pain is going to get a bit worse. You see, you have stuffed all your feelings for a very long time and now that you are starting to heal, they are all going to bubble up to the surface and you will have to actually feel them this time, instead of stuffing them. Good news, you WILL get through it and come out much stronger and balanced on the other side.
    As for trg guy that you ARE STILL IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH, well you need to end it. You are still emotionally attached to him and his actions are dictating your emotions. You are in fact addicted to him. You exchanged him for drugs, one addiction for another. Check out some books on addiction and co-dependence to understand your feelings and behavior. Right now you are at risk of letting this guy back into your life. Learn about love, real love, not sexual attraction, and it will give you insight so that you can see you were not in love with him, and he is not and never will be in love with you. Good luck!

    December 12, 2014 at 10:43 am #69170
    belove
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    Dear Sarah,
    The emotions you’re feeling is overwhelming. But like any storms, this storm of emotions will also calm down with time. You need to take shelter in yourself while this is happening. You sound like you already know what to do. It’s just the actual doing it that’s difficult. I can see the brighter days ahead of you. How do I know? You’ve gained awareness in your actions and their effects. You’re facing it head on now. It’s hard. They don’t say “no pain, no gain” for no reasons. My heart is with you. You can do this. You’re on the right path. Please be patient with yourself. Healing takes time. Keep focus on building a stronger foundation in yourself. Keep focusing in reading self-help books. Keep talking to us here. The more you do for yourself, the less everything else matters (like what your ex is doing with his life).
    You will begin to see things in different light, with different attitudes. You can love yourself more and more each day. I am with you.

    • This reply was modified 10 years, 3 months ago by tinybuddha.
    December 14, 2014 at 4:03 am #69219
    hols
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    Unlike him and his family. In fact, just leave Facebook and the drama it causes. At least for now.

    Keep reading self-help books

    Go for counseling

    Consider books that help you fall out of love. You’re not the only one suffering! 🙂

    Be good to you. Don’t let him win.

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