Dear MyPast

You are a young soul and perhaps, do not understand the consequences of your actions at this stage. You have 50-60 years of your life still in front of you and you need to figure out a way to ensure that you succeed in having a decent enough career to make some money. Pls do not waste your valuable time on things, which can wait.

I would also like to know if this current love interest of yours will be happy to live with a partner who may not be able to support her emotionally, financially and physically in the near future.

You are at an age where hormones are going wild and love is in the air……but hey, lust or love alone isnt enough for survival.

Pls focus on your studies and career. Girls and other love interests will follow eventually.

Positive energy coming your way,

Good luck with exams

Jasmine

Hi Mypast

I understand that you have an emotional bonding with your friend. That is great and awesome 🙂

Why is it hard for you to understand that the girl doesn’t reciprocate your feelings ? She is with another guy. Leave her alone or be with her like a friend. If she wanted to be with you romantically in the first place, you wouldn’t be in this mess.

Girls are not things. They are humans with feelings and they can choose whoever they wish to be with. She has chosen the other guy for the moment. You should respect that if you truly love this girl.

Solution for you: Appreciate that you are in love with someone who may be in love with someone else. Respect that. Respect yourself for letting her go and focus on your life and studies. Start with 20 mins on a book, then take a few mins off to do whatever you need to do but come back to another chapter within 10 mins. Keep the cycle going for atleast 3-4 times and hey, you will be done with some study during that day. Be nice to yourself, my friend.

And I strongly believe in one thing: Some things are just meant to be and they come into our lives to make us stronger and better. Learn the lessons and move on. If she is meant to be yours, she will come back to you eventually. I personally wouldn’t want to spend a life with such a girl but that’s me. I have had an emotional bonding with many of childhood friends for years and still do but that doesn’t mean, my romantic life will be spent with them too.

To make it easier for you – I met my partner during an internship in a random café. Call it fate or destiny, but despite all odds, we were married within a few months and still are after so many years. My respect for him grows every day as he is such a divine soul. He lets me be ME and brings out the best in all of my actions. I couldn’t have asked for a better mate. So moral of the story: Life only gets better if you let it be, my friend. If you hang on to it too tightly, it becomes suffocating for everyone including yourself. Trust Universe to provide for your every desire when the time is right.

Let go, Breathe and go back to studies.

You will be in my prayers tonight.

Jasmine

You are still a kid Yuvi. Enjoy life and don’t worry about what others are saying or doing. You just focus on your life, pls.

Forgiveness is a choice. If you are able to forgive people, you become free. If you hold on to resentment, you become a prisoner of your own emotions and logical mind. Life becomes a pain and full of miseries. If you can do one thing for yourself, start with a gratitude exercise each morning. Think of things, which are good in life and offer your gratitude. When we adopt an attitude of gratitude, everything becomes more beautiful with time.

But, hey no stress. Enjoy your youth. These days won’t come back.

J