Hello, Marilyn,
There is such loving power in your story, its healing process, especially regarding forgiveness. For me, forgiveness is really about me letting go of the grip that I have on the pains of the past. It really has little to do with the other person. And it has everything to do with me letting go and moving on by way of compassion, kindness, and love.
Our forgiveness truly sets us free, free to be quite happy and so loved.
Smiles!
Midge