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  • #53687
    jon
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    I couldnt help but notice this forum had been untouched for over a month. So this is exactly want i want not to be so common in society these days. I have noticed that people all the time in all situations are just being negative. People complain over and over, they blame other people for things in their life, and are just not that happy. It sounds like i am only looking at all the bad but i am focusing on both the good and the bad. Trying to promote the good and loose all the bad stuff. I live an elated life because making note and comment about the bad things in life accomplishes nothing, i have consciously tried to make every situation i am in a happy and eventful experience. People need try to just not worry so much. We need to tell our selves that everything is fine and it will end up great. Doing this and telling yourself even with no evidence of truth will make you more happy. Treat every failure not as a disappointment but a necessary learning step to achieve your goals. Our mindset is what we need to change to make us more happy people and happiness is the end all be all and the purpose of life is it not? Just a little rant i would share about how i will start to change the world.

    #53695
    @Jasmine-3
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    🙂

    #63038
    Ryan Viola
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    Believing yourself is really the solution while in being trouble, and motivating yourself will let you cope with every difficulties.

    #63054
    Rahel
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    Please do share your tips.. it would be useful for many over here.
    Thank you!

    #66874
    ren
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    every thing , matters and people you met/meet has/have their reasons

    and you are the one who can help and change it! purify it!

    people nowadays need more Love and Wisdom from Him!

    Cheers! 😉

    #68949
    Spidey
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    Happiness

    #67165
    AnnMarie
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    Couldn’t agree with you more! Happiness is a state of mind! Every morning you wake up with a choice. You can be happy or you can find all kinds of ways to be angry with the things you don’t have. It is exhausting at times filtering through people’s negativity. You just have to rise above all the garbage people are spewing. It takes effort to be happy. It is something you have to work at day in and day out. That is why you will find most people will just stay miserable. I applaud you! Keep shining, keep climbing and keep being the beacon of light for all of those people who throw shade! I talk about this very topic on my blog. Please feel free to check it out. Knowledge is contagious! Thanks for an awesome post!

    #72248
    Jim McCarthy
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    Jon and AnnMarie, good attitude and outlook. Happiness is a choice and it becomes a state of mind when we nurture our thoughts with healthy, positive and uplifting experiences, quotes, literature, relationships etc. In addition to that is the necessity to minimize and avoid if possible the opposite as well as any substances, i.e. alcohol and drugs that can alter a healthy state of mind.
    In part, happiness is learning or accepting to be content with who you are, where you are and what you have, but also moving forward to becoming someone of greater value to others. Adding to AnnMarie’s comment of ‘keep shining’, let your light shine for others to see and be inspired to be a light to others.

    #72251
    Ashley Arcel
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    I agree with coachjim here. Happiness is a choice and it grows when we consciously choose to water thoughts of optimism, loving kindness and discretion. I’ve been researching happiness a great deal lately for a book I’m writing and what I’ve learned has been incredible. Essentially – a great deal of our happiness is determined by genetics and a great deal is determined by recent life events (a marriage, a new job, a move, etc.) but there is a small (but hugely influential) percentage that is totally dependent upon us: how we think, the choices we make, how and with whom we choose to spend our time, etc. This means that we can literally alter our baseline happiness by focusing on upward mobility in these things. Great news for anyone who has ever experienced a psychic dry spell or a deep depression (Such as myself). Thanks for the great input, folks. I love this feed!

    Ashley

    #72325

    Yea, it does seem like everyone is so constrained by whatever their belief system tells them is the way to go through this life, with bad parts, as well as the good ones, being something that comes and goes, which I believe is true, because everything is changing, all the time, even if we don’t pay attention (yea, go figure), BUT… what seems to me is that people tend to bond this change with the changes within their own feelings and emotional states in a cat chasing it’s own tail manner. Just look at peoples faces during the day, if there isn’t anything particularly good happening most of time they frown, lose their body posture and probably dwell off in the direction of worrying and overthinking. I was like this all the time, now I think I’m doing little better. The glossy bullshit in this story is that there is no difference in whatever is happening, only we can make things fun, we can make ourselves feel better, no matter what surrounds us. That’s what is happening while we are experiencing joy during that “good times”, we ourselves make it feel good. There is no funny thing that happened, we made it funny. And that’s what we have to realize, that we can do this maybe not all the time, but we can do it during those times we are on autopilot (which is a lot of time) feeling meh, feeling good but still not free, still a bit uneasy. What I like to do is remind myself constantly about the good things I have in my life, good people, good friends, my hobbies, my passions, and also, I smile a lot. And I dance. I still haven’t gone berserk with it, and even now, as I’m writing this it seems somewhat “crazy” I still feel good about it. Also, a major thing that changes me and makes me more prone to be there (I like to call it “being there” 🙂 ) is speaking up and sharing. And by that I mean telling people to cheer up when I see them down, or rather showing them my happiness. Also, by giving others more, more of my time, and especially my money, seems to have a great effect on me. It even seems to me that If I’m not happy I become sad. Sometimes I think I’m like Alex Delarge (he couldn’t hold it but I’m not a fictional character whose destiny is already written) and that I have linked everything that isn’t labeled (by my belief system) as “happy” as being bad. And I like being happy more. Crazy, I know.

    Peace. And blue skies. And puppies for all.

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