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Lesbian in a perfect relationship, but missing my ex.

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  • July 26, 2017 at 1:15 am #160226
    Quirine
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    Dear Annaf,

    I ve been in you shoes. I can notice that even though it was really painful to descover that your ex and current girlfriend are approaching other girls and the same time you eventually did the same thing, right?

    What I would try to do in your case is try to realize whether my girlfriend is in a position to care of me, give me what I want and need but also if I would be able to stand by her and not looking back in the past- this is what hurt you twice already.

     

    July 26, 2017 at 3:38 am #160232
    annaf
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    Hi Quirine

    That’s the mot distressing thing because I eventually did that myself which I never wanted to do and never thought I would do. I know my current relationship is a lot stronger and healthier than my previous. I guess I need to let go of the past and move forward.

    Thank you for your reply,

    Anna

    July 26, 2017 at 5:39 am #160248
    Anonymous
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    Dear Anna:

    You wrote that you are in “a perfect relationship” with a woman who “was also messaging her ex behind my back and was telling her how she cant move on and she’s the one she wants to be with”-

    how did you manage to fit her messaging her ex with a view of the relationship being perfect?

    anita

    July 26, 2017 at 5:59 am #160254
    annaf
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    Dear Anita,

    I guess I view what she did as unacceptable, but forgiving. I tend to count myself lucky because her messaging her ex is nowhere near as bad as what my ex did.

    Anna.

    July 26, 2017 at 6:27 am #160260
    Anonymous
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    Dear Anna:

    “Nowhere near as bad” does not make perfect, does it? Not that a relationship can be perfect. Thing is, if trust is important to you in a relationship, a non-negotiable item, that item needs to be there. Can you realistically trust your girlfriend to be loyal to you, is she worthy of this kind of trust, is the question.

    anita

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