Dear Doremi:
Then do all that you can do to get employed again, and do your best to survive this period of unemployment, get exercise daily, eat sensibly, listen to relaxing music… maintain yourself this way so that you survive well until you become employed again.
And then take care of yourself better, once employed, attend to your emotional well-being.
For now, after you do all you can to find employment in any one day, say to yourself: I did all I could do today, it is now time to rest.
The serenity prayer may be helpful to you: “grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference”-
-Accept the things you cannot change today. Change the things you can change, today. And every day. Post here anytime if it helps and I will reply.
anita