Dear Chocolateicecream:

“I can’t help but ask myself.. what would happen if I didn’t bring up the conversation. Would we still be together? I feel like we definitely would”- when you brought up during a walk in the park the topic of where the two of you were as a couple, it is like you directed a source of light, like a flashlight, at the relationship, and what was wrong with it became visible.

If you didn’t direct that figurative flashlight at the relationship, what was wrong with the relationship would have remained in the dark for just a little while longer, maybe a week, a month, maybe even a few months, but what was wrong would have made itself visible eventually.

What was wrong with the relationship???

anita