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  • September 10, 2017 at 10:56 am #168150
    Anonymous
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    Dear B:

    It reads to me that it is time for you, B, to attend quality psychotherapy, and I hope you do. Your anxiety has been going on and on for a long time. You wrote that you tried different things to make the relationship/ your life better but nothing works, and you wrote that you can’t take it anymore (title of your thread).

    Sometimes we need help. And the help you need is not in your boyfriend’s ability to give you. This may or may not be the right relationship for you, I don’t know. You will need to figure it out when you reach calm, peace of mind, and that may be only following some time in quality, effective psychotherapy.

    anita

    September 11, 2017 at 12:58 am #168238
    Austin
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    Hey B, I think Anita has a great idea,

    What you need most is a good friend to sit down with you and let you just talk all of this out!! What I would do, is to find a counselor/psychologist to go to and just sit down with them and tell them all you’ve told us! I promise it will help you so much!!

    As a Christian, I recommend you go to church! This is just my opinion, but I know that Jesus can be a great friend that can heal all that hurts. If you want message me back and I can tell you more! For now, just look in the Bible at John 3:16: “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only son (Jesus), that whoever believes in Jesus, can have eternal life.” Jesus can wipe away all our tears!!!

    Also, make sure to talk to a counselor! I think most people in the world have done it and you should too! What are you waiting for? 🙂

    September 12, 2017 at 5:41 am #168378
    Eliana
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    Hi B,

    I think what it comes down to, is it all to emotionally draining to him, the crying, the suicide threats. Men do not like chaos, intensity and drama. When you are ever thinking hurthful thoughts please contact your local crisis line. They are prepared to deal with people who are suicidal and other crisis. They will send out a mobile unit and refer you to a Psychiatrist for depression and anxiety screening, as you are severely depressed. Please do this, because there is so much your boyfriend can take. I know you don’t want to lose him. Try not to cry around him, threaten suicide, and please get the help you need. I’m worried about you.

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