Hello Lisa,

I am very sorry to hear this development. I wish I could give you a big hug. I wish there were something I could do to help you with the pain.

I hope that as well as reaching out to us here, you will reach out to others in your life. I really hope that you have a friend or relative that you can rely on to help you through this.

I think your husband is being incredibly cruel with his statement about wanting to discuss things ‘without drama’. It seems to me that this is his way of trying to emotionally check out of all the fall out from this divorce and that he is denying you your right to speak. HOWEVER, I do think in the long run, in a strange way, this will work out better for you. You seem to get absolutely nothing from him emotionally and nothing seems to register with him. I think you could waste a lot of time and energy railing against this man for what he has done – and get nothing in return.

Please take care of yourself and give yourself the love and attention that you deserve.

Lisa,

I don’t know if anyone in this world feels it when a total stranger has them in their prayer but you were in mine today, yesterday and will be always. I told god to take your pain away and to give you the strength and courage you need to get passed this.

I can’t even imagine to give you any advise but we are all here to listen. whenever you feel like it, please talk to your brothers and sisters who will always pray for you and cheer you on.

Namaste

S