If I were you I´d ask myself…do I want to be with someone who treats me like this? If your best friend would be in your situation how would you advise her?
I know it´s hard to break out of that cycle…I´ve been there I´ve done that. So I´m letting you in on a secret :…You´ll be fine without him.Believe me.
In my opinion stop contacting him. Stop spending time with him. Go out do things for yourself with your friends and family. Exercise or start a new hobby. Keep yourself busy and you´ll see you dont need a man to make you happy. You´re a great person. Dont waste it on someone who according to what you´ve written down here doesnt care about you. Find someone who respects you and treats you the way you deserve to be treated.
He acts like an immature brat. You said no to his advances yet he kept pushing you into that direction everytime he felt like it and when he doesnt he gets angry and mean.
Is this what love or even friendship is supposed to be like in your eyes?
You cant have a mature relationship with a kid like that. If he cant wait for you he doesnt love you. Why would you want to waste your precious time on someone like that?
He wants you as a f*ck buddy (excuse my language) and he wants to own you like a pet or a toy. He doesnt want to see you happy in your life with someone else.
It´s not love from his side. You are afraid of being alone and that´s the whole problem. You´re 21. Heck you´ve got so much time still to find someone who truly cares for you. So please wake up. Dont waste your feelings anymore. Unless you want to stay in a one-sided relationship and be mistreated.
Picasso said : “There are only two types of women: goddesses and doormats.” It´s your choice what you want to be Casey.
Best of luck.
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