Dear Bob:

We feel what we feel; we don’t choose our feelings. So you feel attracted to your wife’s sister, doesn’t mean you have to do something about it. This attraction is not a … sign of sort that something needs to be done, that fate had put the two of you together, none of these things. It simply means that you have a feeling.

Your wife is absent a lot and that doesn’t work for you, maybe there is a way for you to not be physically separated, might want to look into that, how to make it happen.

anita

You should stay away from home more often, or try to find some hobbies. They keep your thoughts away from her.