Hi everybody, Its my first time writing here. i really need your help.
There is this boy. I like him and i know he likes me back because he told me. We hung out a few times and went to cinemas and stuff. Unfortunatley we had to end our relationship because of reasons and it totally broke me just as much as it broke him. He tried to keep the contact and he regularly texted me (its a thing with us,this texting, we really did that a lot) around april we ended our romantic relationship but until now we keep on texting and we see other in school too.
I know that he STILL likes me because why would a boy always text you or make sure to text you back and apologize if hes not responding properly? Thats what my friends are telling me too.
But i know that he feels that he may bug me when he writes me when its really not the case. I’m so sad that we cant text freely anymore like we used to. I’m having the same issues, thinking i could get on his nerves for texting him…The problem is that we want to talk to each other but we both think that we might bug each other… I used to text him whenever i wanted and so did he. Now i have to think a gazillion times before i write and i’m sure he does too. I know him enough to say that he wants to write me but he cannot get the courage. Now I’m scared that whenever i text him he wont respond because he has to show me that he doesnt need to talk to me when i really feel that he wants me to text him! .. i am so tired of this game and i already told him once that he should just talk to me when he feels like it and not make a big deal out of it! I really try to be the one who talks to him whenever i want, in hope he will understand that hes not getting on my nerves. Although i carry this burden myself everytime i start the conversation..fearing that he doesnt want to talk to me or hast better things to do…please help me i dont want to feel like this anymore. I’m so stressed and this boy is emotionally stressing everything out of me. he really brings me down. At the same time he is always the one who gets me up again after we have a great conversation. Its so paradox and i hate it. I wish it wouldnt bother me so much, i want to let go of this feelings but i cant. How can i make clear that i want to maintain this wonderful friendship and that i value him and it doesnt matter when he texts me! How can i make it clear while i’m having the same problems as him?? Please help me and thank you.