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  • December 19, 2014 at 4:08 pm #69525
    davidgoliat
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    Sounds like your having a war within yourself! 😛

    You obviously have strong feelings, which is good, because you know whats right for yourself, and whats not. If you miss him, and he misses you aswell, you should meet up and just enjoy the moment.

    Approaching is about two parts, thinking about it and actually going it. First of all, you need to tell yourself that you’re going to approach him no matter what, and then go for it. Its the right thing to do, and you know it, so do it! Focus on why, why are you approaching him? Dont focus on how, how to approach him. It will happen itself.

    You dont need to think or set a goal farther than that, trust yourself!

    December 19, 2014 at 10:35 pm #69540
    popi
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    I’m extremely shy when it comes to Jim. When I see other men, no I don’t have a problem.I can talk laugh and chat. But I must make the beginning.

    December 20, 2014 at 4:26 am #69545
    davidgoliat
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    You should approach him, and dont worry about the outcome. Whats the worst that can happen with your approach, and what are the chances for it to be reallity? My point is, you have nothing to worry about, even though you get this emotional explosion. Its a good sign!

    December 20, 2014 at 6:10 am #69548
    popi
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    the worst thing that can happen is 1) rejection 2)i may feel rediculous 3) awkward
    maybe he wants me maybe not.
    but will it be awkward if i appear so long time then?
    maybe he will say …you remembered me now? or something else

    December 20, 2014 at 6:53 am #69551
    davidgoliat
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    The worst thing that can happen to you, is that you stumble and fall and break your back when you’re making the approach! Make sure that wont happen, and everything will be fine. Rejection is a possible outcome, but not nessecary in a negative way. Lets say it happens; Jim “rejects” you. You will obviously get hurt, but you will learn from it and move on. Isnt that better a feeling than not trying? 🙂

    Trust me, guys have feelings to. And maybe he feels the same way about you!

    Good luck

    December 21, 2014 at 12:21 am #69570
    popi
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    Hello thank you again.
    Yes rejection is not that bad.it’s part of life.
    but I don’t know where I can find find him
    And the two places I know are his home and the store in which his father works..which doesn’t have to do with emporium.. its something related with dentists.I don’t know the word.its something technical like fixing fake teeth.hahajahaha
    Maybe I described it a little.
    so..there’s no way in visiting his home “hello I’m popi Jim’s classmate and I want him ” hahahHa
    So..maybe I must let the past go..because I had the opportunity when we were in school and never grab it because I hadn’t the courage..same as now.

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