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    JY_Lin
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    Hi Anita,
    Apologize for the late reply, didn’t notice there’s a 2nd page. After reading your comments, it becomes clearly on the reason of my ‘inadequate’ needs in my relationships. I am not given much attention and love in my childhood and thus, I pinned all my dreams and happiness to the man of my life, never realizing these causes stress to the man, which kills the relationship.

    I beginning to be more aware of my ownself, beginning to see the core reasons of the failure of my relationship. If I am still not out of these ‘trauma’ in my childhood which are still haunting me even now, I will never get into a healthy relationship.

    Thank you Anita. I will find out more about competent psychotherapy.

    #131743
    Anonymous
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    Dear mangomango123:

    You are very welcome. I wish such childhood traumas didn’t happen, as they would save lots of people from a lot of wasted time, misery and dysfunction. Unfortunately they happen, and the healing has to be taken seriously, as a long process that requires work and a whole lot of patience with the process and gentleness with yourself.

    Post anytime.
    anita

    #131977
    Becky
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    Hi! Sorry about your situation. I was in a similar relationship, love but lots of arguing and not very compatable. I think honestly it’s easier to fall in love than it is to find someone who shares the thoughts and beliefs and dreams that you have and who you can communicate easily with. But I’m here on the other side and I’ve been happily married for 13 years now and we agree on most things and don’t argue much. I didn’t know relationships could be easy and smooth. But they can be!!! Breaking up is hard but don’t loose hope. Be on the look out for someone who shares your beliefs and who really understands you and take it from there.
    Blessings!

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